Judgement
What is Judgement?
Judgement is the finality of consideration. No further assessment. No longer contemplating. Judgement is a decision.
In many cases, decisions must be made, regardless of how full one's understanding is. However, there are also many cases in which there is no necessity for a decision to be made, and yet, judgement ensues...
The detriment of judgment from others is the same detriment as self judgment: the confinement of possibility--restriction of becoming. When you judge yourself, you are locking yourself into certain ways of being, establishing the limits of your capabilities, resting upon an interpretation of your actions... When someone else judges you, it's the same.
Perceiving and speculating is not the detriment of course. The detriment is in getting stuck...
Dealing with judgment within and without is essentially the same, though it's often received differently depending on where it's coming from. But in any case, the resolution is to keep moving.
When someone stumbles and falls, the interpretation and significance of that fall varies (both, in that person and the people watching) depending on whether the fallen dwell on it, or spring up, laugh it off and move on. Consider the mistake enough to learn from it, but not to condemn capability.
The extended methods of communication we use, beyond physical face-to-face interaction are static imprints. Momentary echos. They lack the continuous, dynamic, fluid being that humans are and that life is. This nature of being a singular point with sparse continuity is an essential aspect which leads to a lot of overly accusatory and assumptive arguing in online discourse. As if the being ends within the confines of the sentence without further consideration and no willingness to bend. When left with only the static expression to observe, our interaction is limited to extrapolation--assumption predicts the liner progression of the thought given, failing to be surprised.